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State of Dating  - Volume V (TEST)

How to protect yourself from fraud

1001 ways to orgasm: How the wisdom of disability expands pleasure for everyone

Friends with benefits: A roundtable on rebranding a classic 

Hotwifing: a new(ish) term for a dynamic as old as time

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How to (actually) open your relationship

My partner is on a date—help!

What’s our issue with squirting?

Practical, expert-backed advice paired with the special sort of synergy that happens when we come together to talk about relationships, identity, companionship, and boundaries. 

The Feeld Guide to dating while disabled

How to cum through your thumb: What the able-bodied can learn from disabled sex

The intimacy of being touched without pity 

Soul-extending slow burns and how to hold them

A Week on Feeld with… a former monk

Drinking the gender fluid

Raving about McKenzie Wark

Polyamory as a life structure: Embracing multiplicity beyond love

The Feeld guide to cuckqueaning

Fashioning queer identities: On the politics of getting dressed

Shibari basics: A beginner’s guide to mindful rope play

A guide to HIV: What it is, how it’s passed on, and how to stay healthy

How to access free HIV testing

A guide to STI testing: Where to find providers, and which types of tests are available?

The Feeld guide to prioritizing sexual health and safety

How to self-test for STIs

Amatonormativity: What it means and why it matters

The Feeld guide to asexual dating

If a dynamic is going well, it’s likely you’ll want to integrate that relationship into the rest of your life. What’s the best way to handle people who don’t get it?

How to explain polyamory to family and friends

How to get the most out of Majestic membership

Exploring LGBTQIA+ flags and their meanings

The role of allies in the LGBTQIA+ community

Navigating dating as a closeted person

State of Reflections Volume 2: The Words We Didn’t Have

Sex and testosterone in the age of T-maxxing 

Reclaiming sluttiness in sobriety

A guide to navigating vaginismus: In pursuit of healing and pleasure

And then he spat in my mouth

A Week on Feeld, without Feeld

A Week on Feeld with… a 40-year-old woman exploring pleasure and connection in Spain's “mundo liberal”

Dating, sex, and intimacy after trauma: Reclaiming connection on your terms

A roundtable conversation on the many different approaches to developing an inclusive, anti-oppressive, and joyful practice.

Talk(ing) Therapy: 5 therapists on inclusivity, misconceptions, and responsibility

Ready or not…? Why you don't need to be “healed” to date

Some people think being sex positive means being constantly available and always saying yes to sex. This couldn’t be further from the truth, writes Abby Moss.

What is sex positivity?

A guide to sober dating: Making connections without alcohol

A guide to dating for the bi-curious

A guide to dating app tourism for places big and small

Whether you're curious about progressing to throupledom, or you're already there, here's everything you need to know—according to an expert.

From couple to throuple and beyond: Navigating polyamory and ENM

From first message to first date, here's how to invite a third to join you the respectful way

Finding your unicorn: how to ethically approach the subject

A dating guide for recently out lesbians

Sometimes app dating can just seem like all too much effort. Here's how to rejuvenate your online experiences.

How to get back into dating when you have dating app fatigue

A guide to NSA (No Strings Attached)

Learn more about how to explore Feeld with a partner.

How do Paired Accounts work on Feeld?

How do you address the obstacles to a threesome and increase the odds of a mutually pleasurable and fulfilling experience? Introducing Feeld’s first-time threesome guide.

How to have a threesome: A First-Timer's Guide

Creating a foundation for growth: On ever-evolving identity

The taming of the brat: Strategies for dominants

What is a praise kink? Tips, phrases, and how it works

What is a pleasure Dom and how to be one

The first, essential, piece of knowledge for bondage and BDSM is that the road to pleasure has no shortcuts; there is no substitute for time, patience and the intimacy you build on trust.

Bondage Basics: How to tie someone up safely

A guide to lesbian identities

A Week On Feeld

A Week on Feeld with…a 50-year-old single, straight, white woman

How to Dollify: The Complete Guide

How to meet and treat a unicorn

Reflections: A data report

How to navigate antidepressants and desire

The Feeld guide to limerence

Closeness and community: The power of non-romantic connections for mental health

Judgment, anxiety, and authenticity: How to manage mental health and dating

The unique mental health challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community

Dirty talk (and texts, and sounds, and more)

How to create the perfect Feeld profile

The many histories of flagging

A Week on Feeld with Lola*, an artist exploring self-expression after taking Feeld’s Reflections tool

A Week on Feeld with… a play party exhibitionist looking to build community 

There are many road maps to ENM or poly relationships. Somehow, finding your way back to a monogamous relationship is less charted territory. To help, our cartographer Sophie Mackintosh offers direction. 

The Feeld guide to “closing” a relationship

Fucktoys’ Annapurna Sriram on the female gaze, sex positivity, and François Arnaud

The Feeld guide to mutual masturbation, the most underrated type of sex

In defense of rebound sex

Lingering with the zombies: are resurfaced connections all that bad?

Your future is smutty: Predictions for the sexual zeitgeist

Why I love one-night stands, and don’t feel guilty about it

The Feeld guide to fisting

A guide to topping as a trans man

Unlearning toxic familiarity, and seeking safe desire

How to explain solo polyamory to potential partners

A guide to the different poly dynamics

Pangender refers to a person who identifies with a multitude of genders. Learn more about what that means, with help from an expert.

What does it mean to be pangender?

From agender to pangender and demigirl to genderqueer, discover the different non-binary identities in Feeld’s guide

Exploring non-binary identities: Agender and beyond

Hot, not broken: A punk rock guide to perimenopause

What to know when dating someone who has a period—for those who menstruate, and those who don’t

Person with bed sheets flying over them

If you love beyond the bounds of social norms, does that mean there are no rules?

How I practice relationship anarchy

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Safety is our priority. Learn more about how we’ve updated our Location feature to protect your privacy.

Protecting our Members and their Privacy

Auras

Here's the spot for all the news and details on keeping our community connected.

Everything you need to know about the latest Feeld update

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ENM relationship types and how to choose the right one for you

State of Dating Volume III: Relearning Love

The rise of relationship anarchy in an age of loneliness

Data insights from Feeld dating app

Chart your own course while finding your people: a collection of data that tells a story about Feeld.

We’ve got your number

Feeld rebrand app on a green background

Everything’s new, from backend to frontend, plus an entirely novel look and feel. Re-enter the new Feeld. 

Pick up the phone—Feeld is calling. 

Profile in need of a refresh? Here are some quick tips to help improve your Feeld experience.

Five minutes to a better Feeld profile

Combatting sextortion together

Porn vs. real-life sex: resetting expectations for pleasure

Designing for desire: A Reflections roundtable

Whether delving into new perspectives on gender, sexuality, and kink or deepening an existing curiosity, here, you’ll find real stories and expert advice to support and inspire you on your journey, wherever that may lead.